"Far
better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though
checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither
enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows
neither victory nor defeat."Teddy Roosevelt.
Eventually we started to let our dreams die. People began to tell us that we couldn't do the things we wanted. It was impossible. Responsible people don't pursue their dreams. Settle down, get a job, be dependable. Take care of business, live the mundane, be content.
Do you know what I say to that? Hooey!
It is time to dream again!
Why? Here are just a few reasons:
Avoiding regret. The facts are in, and someday we will all lie on our deathbed looking back through the history of our lives. We will undoubtedly think about what we wished we had done or accomplished. I for one don't want to regret what could have been, what should have been. So I am deciding today to pursue my dreams.
- Making the
world a better place. All of the great accomplishments that have ever
happened began with a person who had a dream. Somebody rebuffed the
nay-sayers and said to himself or herself, "This can be done, and I
am the one who will do it." And in many instances they changed the
world for the better. It isn't just the Martin Luther King's and the
J.F.K's either. Think of all the people we have never heard of who have
started things large and small that help people world-wide every day.
The world needs people like you
to dream of something great and then to pursue it will all of your heart. Maybe
you belong to a business, school, or organization that started out with good
intentions but has settled into the same ol' same ol'. Shake them up and remind
them of how they could really help people if only they would dream!
- Personal and
family fulfillment. One of the things that happens when we stop pursuing
our dreams is that a little piece of us dies and we become disheartened,
if only in that area of our lives. Stepping up and pursuing your dream
rekindles that passion and zeal that everyone has the capacity for and
lets us experience fulfillment. Having a purpose puts the zip in our step
and the zing in our emotions!
- Leaving a
legacy. How will your children remember you? As one who sought all that
life had to offer, using your gifts and talents to their fullest extent,
leading the family with a zest for life, or as an overweight couch potato
who could have been? Our children need to see that we dream; that we search
for something better. They in turn will do the same!
So where do we start? Here are some ideas:
- Reconnect
with your dream.
Set aside some time to let yourself dream. What have you placed on the backburner in order to live the status quo? Settle on one or two dreams that you can and will pursue. Don't come up with too many. That will only deter you further. - Decide
that you will do it.
This may seem elementary but many people never decide and commit fully to their dream. They simply keep "thinking" about it. - Tell
others that you are going to do it.
This puts you on the record as to what you are dreaming about. It makes you accountable. It will help you do it if for no other reason than to avoid embarrassment! - Develop
a step-by-step plan.
This is absolutely essential. You must sit down and write out a few things: - A
timeline.
How long will it take to the end? - Action
steps.
Point-by-point what you will do and when you will do them. - Resources
you will need to draw from.
What will it take? Who will need to be involved for help or advice? - An
evaluation tool.
You need to evaluate from time to time whether you are progressing or not. - A
celebration.
Yep, when you are done you should already have planned what you will do to celebrate. Make it big!
I have found that there is no better time than now. So, set aside
some time today to get started on your dream. Follow the action plan and set
your sights for the top of the mountain! You will be glad you did!