Did you know that the development of a positive
mental attitude is the indispensable requirement for achieving great success in
your field?
Everyone knows that selling is hard work. In fact,
it is one of the most difficult jobs in our economy. As a salesperson, you face
continual rejection, potential failure, persistent disappointment, setbacks,
obstacles and difficulties not experienced by most people. Selling is not easy
and it has never been easy. Will it ever be easy? No, it will always be varying
degrees of difficult, from hard to very hard, to very, very hard. And to be
successful in selling you must be tough, as well.
Your Attitude Makes
the Difference
In selling, your attitude is probably eighty
percent of your success. Your attitude is the outward expression of everything
that you are, and everything that you have become over the course of your
lifetime. Your attitude has the greatest single impact on the people that you
deal with. The development of a positive mental attitude is the indispensable
requirement for great success in your field.
Learn to Bounce
Back
Psychologists have defined the "hardy
personality" as the type of personality that is most suited to the rigors
of the modern business world. The hardy personality, the personality you need
to develop, is resilient, optimistic, tough, strong, and capable of bouncing
back continually from temporary disappointments and defeats.
Respond Constructively
to Stress
A positive mental attitude is a constructive
response to stress. It is a solution-oriented, objective approach to
difficulties that you face every single day. A positive mental attitude is
expressed as a general optimism toward life and the inevitable challenges of
earning a living. A positive mental attitude is the most outwardly identifiable
quality of a winning human being, and it is the characteristic most closely
identified with success in selling of all kinds.
Practice Mental Fitness Every Day
To
become and remain physically fit, you must engage continuously in physical
exercise. To become mentally fit, to develop the kind of attitude that leads on
to success and happiness, you must engage in continuous mental exercise. It is
a never ending process. Just as you do not achieve physical fitness and then
discontinue physical exercise, you can not achieve mental fitness without
working on it regularly, every day, like breathing in and breathing out.
Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do immediately to
put these ideas into action:
First,
decide in advance that, from now on, you are going to respond in a positive and
constructive way to each and every stress situation in your life. Be tough!
Second,
practice mental fitness every day by forcing yourself to remain cheerful and
optimistic in the face of difficulties and disappointments.
Remember,
you can do it if you decide to!
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