DREAM BIGGER,AIM HIGHER, GO FARTHER

This is the time when millions of us set goals for the year ahead. If we do it "right" – the way the books tell us to – we review our numbers for 2009, evaluate our performance, and make adjustments for 2010. That's the normal" way of doing it, the way governments, large corporations and most

individuals do it.

There's nothing wrong with it, except that it doesn't work. Often, "raising the bar" is not what we truly want. It's not "enough."

Too many of us set our goals by merely adding 10% to what we've done before. The major exception is our health and fitness, when we promise that we'll finally take action and do something about it…this year for sure! Now, there's nothing wrong with using the past as your starting point. Institutions do that all the time. But who wants to be an institution?

This is your LIFE we're talking about! If a few adjustments are all you really want, go for it! If a minor tweak is all you need, then don’t make a fuss. Adjust your budget, set your goal, and be done with it.

But I'm challenging you to think bigger and aim higher.

As you look at 2010 and beyond, what do you really WANT for your life? What's the REAL story? What's your DREAM? What are you doing with your life? That's the question I want you to consider in the days ahead.

In those areas where a small step is all you need, that's fine. Buy a new car, lose the weight, make a little more and spend a bit less. These are the small adjustments that make life easier and I support them. As many of you know, I’m a huge fan of “baby steps.” Keep things simple and if that’s all you need, be proud of it!

Unfortunately, however, small adjustments can also be the things that keep us trapped. As we hit our goals and increase our income, these small victories become the "golden handcuffs" that trap us in our routine. They keep us "playing small" so that while we're winning the battles, we end up frustrated or confused because our lives don't have the meaning we hoped for.

This year, dream bigger. Ask the fundamental questions about who you are, what you want, and how you want to live. Where are you going? What's the point? Think bigger, aim higher, go further. You may not get "there" in one year, perhaps not in a lifetime, but make sure you're headed in the right direction. Make sure you're on a path that is worth walking.